F.A.Q.
What do I do before I come?
To participate in any of the offerings by Samsara Temple, you need to be able to read thoroughly, do your research, not require any hand holding, and most importantly, you must pre-purchase a ticket to attend. Samsara is a mobile temple, based in Kansas City, MO, meaning we host events in multiple locations around the world, please read each event description from beginning to end. There may be different vetting requirements for the different spaces we visit.
We DO NOT offer online/digital classes at this time.
Let’s talk consent.
Enthusiastic and informed consent is queen within the realm of Samsara temple events and she will be respected. We strive to create a safe space for all to explore sexually, without anyone feeling like they are being stalked. Informed consent and clear communication is key. Which means you must ALWAYS have a detailed conversation and receive verbal consent before any touch can occur, including cuddling/hugging. Any violation of this will not be tolerated and you will be asked to leave immediately and banned forever. For events where touch will be shared between individuals a color coded consent bracelet system will be implemented and enforced.
No means no. It’s never personal, it’s to keep the person saying no continuing to feel safe. If someone says no, respect that and move on.
We encourage you to find your words and ask for what you want. We will help if needed.
How are you keeping me safe in a sexual environment?
We offer a BRAVE space for our patrons. We are here to vet our members for you through our hours of self work before any sort of orgasmic container. Our Founders are present at every event providing checks and balances to the entire group. Our goal is to weed out any and all sexual predators within our space. The venues we work in run your info against the National Sex Registry. We do not offer second chances, we do not tolerate any consent violations.
What’s this bracelet system?
Each participant will choose a wristband to wear to signify their intent for the pleasure portion of any event we have.
RED - No touch exchange with/from other participants or I want to pair off with others. DO NOT DISTURB.
YELLOW - Maybe touch exchange is wanted. DEFINITELY consent chat.
GREEN - Touch exchange wanted. Let's chat about consent!
Depending on the workshop, ritual or party we allow different levels of touch. For some, we limit it to manual touch, without kissing or penetration. For others, we allow for sex with barriers. Each event is different and you can find out which containers we set on our come section of the site.
I’m a single cis-male, can I come too?
Absolutely! We don’t judge anyone based on their gender presentation, sexual identity, or whom they chose to love. We would love to have you, and as a single cis-man, you are receiving a special privilege being invited to such a sacred space. This is a space of consent. This is a container of safety. We do freely encourage voyeurism and there is a difference between observing and stalking. Rest assured, we will be keeping an even closer eye on you, our single male attendees. This standard isn’t meant to discourage anyone from feeling welcome to our space. This is a fuckboy free zone. Please be respectful, please practice your manners, and please don’t be a douchenozzle.
Consumption
You may have noticed that some of our events include a suggestion to imbibe cannabis before coming to class. In Missouri, where we are founded, marijuana is legal . This is not an invitation to share or be unsafe with our sacred cannabis plant. We do NOT allow alcohol at our events.
What are the dress guidelines?
To walk into our space, you must be fully clothed. Once in our Temple space, you are welcome to be as naked as you would like to be!
What is Conscious Sexuality?
Conscious sexuality is using intentionality before partaking in any given sexual act. It’s taking the time to think, talk, negotiate and really sit for a second before committing to do anything. It’s setting an intention as a group and then learning what other people are interested or are able to offer. It is the very cornerstone of Samsara.
Am I able to get a full refund if I am unable to attend?
No. Full refunds are not available if you are unable to attend your purchased ticket. However, we do offer a one time ‘continuance’ policy that allows us to roll over your ticket to the next event of the same kind. This is a ONE TIME per ticket usage. If it happens a second time with the same ticket, you will not be refunded or have the continuance policy extended a second time.
I’m a ball of nerves about this AND I want to come.
It's perfectly normal to be nervous - try to dig a little deeper and find your “why.” Is it possible that the feeling could actually be excitement or anticipation? If you have any questions not answered here, feel free to reach out at any point in time. Samsara Temple provides a safe experience space and works diligently to ensure everyone feels seen and heard as much as they wish. We are so excited to share this work with you!
What are the spiritual beliefs of Samsara Temple?
As a business we identify as vaguely pagan, and as people - all of the founders have their own opinions on how the world works. The "church" aspect of our temple is more about the community that comes with organized religion. Our weekly services have aspects of self worship, which can look like shadow work, self care, meditation, yoga, artistic expression time - all with the perk of sexual touch after the deep self work. It's the sex magick way of integrating the self work into your regular life/psyche - the power of orgasm really does do wonders to change how we perceive the world.